It's claimed that the socialization of
children determines the destiny of society, but we don't know how to raise
children who can bring about a better society. I concede that how children are socialized
today determines the future of society. Nevertheless this follows that we just
don't know the correct method to educate children, instead of not knowing how
to raise them.

The socialization of children means to have
the adults' society at one with children. It's necessary that children should
come in a variety of characters, ranging from independence to honesty, to
cooperation, to leniency, or to courage. With such characters, everyone among
society is able to make the future of society better. However, in fact there
are still phenomena that reveal the partial idea that we have not yet learned
how to raise children. For example, it always can be seen that a few of
children cheat in exam. Consider another example that network violence, that
some children violate ethics on the Internet, indeed harms other children.
Especially in Facebook it often happens, which even lead to some children
taking their own lives. The manner of these children continues to change the
society in some aspects during their later lives.

The behavior above influences the society
and the society also has effects on children in turn. When the children are
growing up, the society changes its self. The revolution always accompanies a
lot of distress, which often take place in children. The examples above exactly
prove it. Conspicuously, science and technology are the mark of social
development. They are tools that adults often use to solve problems such as how
to raising children. For example, some negative information has been filtered
by the Internet technology. Another apt example involves that the Chinese
government carried out a prevented indulge system of online game in 2007 in
Chinese mainland. If a child plays the online game more than 5 hours, the role
in the game will benefit nothing. This system can keep children from addicting
the Internet in some extent. For that matter, adults understand how to conduct
children to avoid corrupting.

Due to the changes of society, every
generation of children would face with problems that are different with their
parents. Based on that fact, the problems can be classified into two groups.
The first group is the problem that children's parents have ever encountered.
Because of their own experience, they know how to use correct methods to
educate children. For example, a boy fights with other children almost every
day, which would not happen at the 30 years old. And the second group is the
problem that children's parents have never met with. Lacking experience to
solve the problem, they don't know what's the right and effective method to
educate their children. The online game is the best example. Even with the
prevented indulge system, children can play another game after 5 hours. That's
the root cause that we just don't know the correct method to educate children.To sum up, the claim has its value that how
children are socialized today determines the destiny of society. Yet when faced
the development of society, it's indispensable that people must learn more
about children. Therefore, families, schools and government should spare no
efforts to change the situation.