nowadays，through the development of our society。it is more and more convenient for us to communicate with our family,and gain the help from them. compared with the old time period of China, the information spread not as fast as do in present time.we had to take amount of time to communicate with our family to seek advice.in the past, the only tool we can use to connect with them was writing letters. so if we were suck into trouble where they could not come immediately, maybe with a long distance. letter would not make sense to help. but not a large amount of tools thereby people exchange information and give out news,the advantages claimed for email, MSN over the letter, telegram is being approved.  seeking advice easily is a undoubteable stimulated by the development of current era.
following  the quickly update of messages, there is another significant characteristic in today's social condition,the shorter generation gap.there is no doubt that generation gap is a giant obstacle in front of the parents and their children. 
besides the two main reason for supporting of making the dialogue among family member more easily, the social circle matters too. the social circle is another pattern of improving the young people be successful. our parents will lead them to a wider spectrum of social relationship,from their colleagues, friends to the bosses of big companies, the famous institutions. they are a available source of experience from which we can learn from.as a result,by making most of these bridges they provide us,we can expand our horizon and enlarge our insight.