【IBT机经-10】Do you agree or disagree with the following statement: Parents should allow their children to make mistakes and let them learn from their own mistakes.
翻译
你是否同意下述观点:家长应该允许他们的孩子犯错并让他们从中吸取教训。
指导
这是一道关于家庭教育的题目,讨论的是孩子们犯错是否有利于其自身发展。题目给出了一个判断——“孩子们犯错误是有利于自身成长的”。其合理之处在于,如果孩子们知错就改,并从中吸取教训,而且下次不再犯相同的错误,那么这个错误值得犯;该题目不正确的地方是忽略了某些致命性的错误是孩子们碰不得的。因此,解决这个题目应该看到以下三个问题:首先,要认识到犯错是人们成长和成熟的必不可少的环节;其次,错误分很多种,有大有小,重复犯错和致命性错误都是不可接受和原谅的;最后,家长在其中起到重要的监督作用是不能忽略的。
1. 请结合实际谈谈错误分哪几种?犯错对于人们成长的重要意义是什么?
回答:
we sometimes make mistakes just because we didn't know we couldn't do them. from those mistakes, we can learn knowledge which we didn't know in the past. and in some occasions,although we know what we will do could hurt someone, we still do it selfish for our own benefits.
2. 请结合具体事例谈谈孩子们通过犯错可以吸取哪些教训?这些教训对于他们起到哪些作用?
回答:
when i was a child, i was very naughty and always climbed on the table. although my parents told me i shouldn't do it,i didn't think that is dangerous and wrong. but since one day i fallen onto the floor, i have never done it anymore. sometimes only when being bodily experienced, you know how dangerous an irresponsible move could be.
3. 在什么情况下,孩子们犯错是可以被接受的?在什么情况下,是不能被接受的,为什么?请结合实际简述。
回答:
if children' mistakes don't broke the laws or moral concepts, we can accept it.
4. 有没有哪些东西是可以不用犯错就能学到的?请举例说明。
回答:
we can know that we could never make those mistakes from our parents, internet and so on. since we were young, we knew that we can't rob others because that will broke the laws.
5. 请结合具体事例简述家长应该如何在孩子们犯错和吸取教训的过程中正确发挥引导的作用?
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