confronted with which kind of friends deserved to make up with,i ' d like to choose those who can give me a hand when i needed them rather than those who i can have fun with.选择后者。confucius once said the kind of friends deserved to make up with are those who are honest，upright，and have more experience in life.and those who are dishonest and disloyal are not people deserved to develop a relationship with.thus, no matter what kind of friends you'd like to choose, the principle is always confirmed with what confucius said, to make up with people who will benefit you.交友前提。a proverb said : choose an easier road,you will find it more and more difficult to cover,while a road more difficult,will be more easier to go on.things do mot always went as we wanted it to be.the same with choosing friends.we choose a friend to have more fun with,may be later life becomes harder and you may not have time to enjoy.i 'd like to choose a friend who can help me when i needed him,and we could help each other be more successful ,may be later we will have time to enjoy lives as well.although what kind of friends made you what kind of person who you are,the more important is who you wanted to be.it is about self-growth.