What is the definition of the success, personally, i think the definition is that we may gain the largest achievement at the things what we fall in love with. So i disagree with that we would be more likely to others than be differentiate with others,while we succeed.
First because successful people have some different qualities with ordinaries. These different qualities including: Insistence, whatever the thing they loved to do is how difficult or under what terrible circumstances,they will insist to do it.But the ordinaries will give up to do so.Competence, the successful individuals may have wonderful opinions on something,but the ordinaries only just follow the ways have already done.Second because successful people have different timetable for the ordinaries. The successful people spend much their time to study and deliberate,while the ordinaries relax and play.Thirdly, the successful people have a deeper insider about problems than the ordinaries do.That means that ordinaries may resolve the facet problem when there are some troubles and solve it many times ,but the successful people might find the root of the problem and solve it completely at once.
Successful people,however, may similar to the others in some aspects,such as how to deal with the people who they do not like and so on.From all respects, i disagree with that in order to succeed, we should be more like others than be different from everyone else.