It is obvious that no
one parents would be experienced before they have a son or daughter and each
parent want to become a successful one, or at least a good one. So generalizing
what are some of the qualities of a good parent is suppose to be meaningful.

    First of all, a parent
should never consider their children to be the extend of their lives. In this
case, there are no duties on their children's head to finish some goal that
their parent didn't. When I was young, I often head some complain of the classmates
that their parents impose them playing violin, practicing drawings or do
some extra excises. My classmates claimed that looking at their friends playing
outsides while playing instruments, they felt desperate. I think this emotion
do great harm to their growing.

    The second, in the
educational area, a wise parents are supposed to lead their children to learn.
My parents I still remember did quite well in guiding me. At that time, I
was preparing a competition on mechanism. At the beginning of the contest, I
was busy making without any planes. 2 days passed, nothing have been done. At
the nick of time, parents said I need a definite procedure of making a design
and manufacture rather than working crazily aimless. During the contest, my
parents never told me the answer directly but the way to access the answer.
After this affair, I learnt that it is not the what I did but how to do that
counted.

    The last characteristic
a good parents must have is never using violent to their children. I regard this
factor very very elementary. A parent which always take violent measures to let
their children do something equal to beasts, let alone a good parent.
According to a statistic, a huge percentage among the psychological problem
of teenagers result from family violence.

    At the end, I would like
to summaries the ideas mentioned above. A good parent is a parent without
coercion as well as violence. Also the parent is good at guiding their
children. That is the good parent I define.