The relationship of the luxuries and conveniences of contemporary life and people developing into truly strong and independent individuals has been one of the social headlines.Some people insist that the luxuries and conveniences of contemporary life will prevent people from developing into truly strong and independent individuals.While other person's point of view is at opposite poles.However,I argue that the growth of people ,especially personal ability and independent individuals,depend on many factors,and the most important factors are family and personal.Only explore clearly the impact of both individual ability and independence，we can finally determine the relationship of them.And in fact I believe that no matter which factor play a positive role,it also promote people from developing into truly strong and independent individuals.     Family factor that can impact people grow is relevant to the parental education rather than the quality of life. Even a very prominent family, It has children who were very promising such as Kennedy family and Bush family.If parents educate well,the quality of life will be benefit to their children. Personally,quality of life directly affect my growth.Because my family is middle class,I learn violin at six years old and then the musical gate was opened to me.In addition,I touched the computer earlier than my classmates and then I interested in it slowly,the result is computer is the specialty that I learn in college.So the advantage of luxuries and conveniences of contemporary life is just the economy support and people can develop further based on this condition.But the problem is also obvious.Good quality of life