Some people would like to spend most of their time alone, while others enjoy spending majority of their time with friends.Of these two kind of life style ,i prefer the latter,to be with friend in most of the time.That would bring benefits that influent me profoundly.First i want to confirm my view is that if i stay with my friend,we can usually chat with each other, we can talk about the some interesting thing in our daily life for fun and the daily news such as the social politics or revolution of the system of the education or medication.Without chatting,the lasting information is hard for me to receive because i am not the one who would like to surfing on the internet to see the news from NYT. I have remenber the day when i was told that Brack Obama was elected again by American,  if there is no chat,I won't receive these information as fast as i could from my friend when we just talk about the falewere system of the society in US,that's what the Brack Obama always mention through the period of the selection. The second view i want to prove is that when i enjoy most of my time with my friend, i begin to find my issues  which are proposed by my friend,such as i am not wash my cloth recently or i am not work hard for my course or duty,and also they can give me some advice to solve them.As a result, few of these problems were exist when i realized these problems need to be solved and i should be a good man.Their is an issue that i have had it before is that i didn't focus on my first TOEFL Ibt preparation.No plan was maked and didn't work hard in learnin english. One day i was playing the computer games when my friend ask me whether could i do a good job in these test.And he found that i didn't spend much time to learning english and he was afraid that i would fail in the test.But i didn't care.As he said i didn't got a high enough score in these test 2 weeks later.I recognised that it's a issue to me.Then i ask him to give me some advice because he got a high score before and full of experience.Since then i was focus on my TOEFL Ibt and make a schedule for english learning,  i am not sure how long is needed to get a satify score,but the issue of my posture has been solved.Thanks for my friend.The third one is that from  this life form,we will learn to help each other and  take care about our friend.It's important for us.Altough,stay alone could independence us quickly and  brave us face the social problem earlier, the problems which could be solved is limited,for instance, no one could built up the Great Wall alone.without help and care,cooporation and negotiation,the obstacles of circumstance is hard to break out.