TOEFL 作文题目
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【IBT机经-9】Do you agree or disagree with the following statement: It is better for children to choose the jobs similar to their parents.
题目分析
翻译
你是否同意下述观点:让孩子们选择和他们父母相似的工作是更合适的。
指导
这是一道关于家庭教育的题目,该题目预先给出了一个判断:家长做的工作是好的,是有利于孩子发展的。其合理的地方在于如果孩子做与父母相似的工作,父母可以给予关照和指导;不正确的地方在于它忽视了孩子自身是否适合这项工作,自动忽略了父母工作的性质和内容有不利于孩子发展的可能。破解这个题目的关键在于:1、孩子们选择适合自己且利于自身发展的工作需要考虑哪些方面;2、选择和父母相似的工作对孩子会产生哪些影响。
1. 请结合实际谈谈孩子们选择适合自己且利于自身发展的工作需要考虑哪些方面?
回答:
孩子选择工作应考虑:是否和专业相关,自己是否有这方面的潜质是否能胜任,就业前景,自身兴趣爱好,工作环境及内容是否是自己喜爱的。
2. 孩子们在选择工作时,是否一定需要考虑自己父母工作的性质和内容,为什么?请结合具体事例简述。
回答:
从某种程度上说,选择和父母相似的工作,以帮助自己更快的适应,可以从身边得到些指导,但孩子选择工作并不一定要考虑自己父母的工作性质和内容。如果父母是学医的,孩子若对医学就很大反感,如果选择医疗作为孩子的职业,不仅不会给他带来长远有益的职业发展,反而会产生负面影响,孩子无法专注工作,导致一些失误等等。
3. 如果选择和父母类似的工作,是否会有利于孩子的发展,为什么?家长在其中会起到哪些影响?请结合具体事例简述。
回答:
有时候,选择和父母类似的职业会阻碍孩子的发展。比如孩子选择跟随父母从事医疗服务,家长就会对孩子的职业发展有很高的期望,希望孩子能比自己优秀,这无形中给孩子造成了压力,父母由于了解职业,会对孩子的职业有一些干涉,不利于孩子独立自主的发展。另一方面,孩子选择和父母类似的职业,如果指导得当,父母可以对孩子有很好的指导和引领,让他们更快的适应职业需求,对孩子也会有帮助。
4. 请结合实例谈谈选择和父母不同工作的孩子们是不是更不容易成功?
回答:
不一定。成功与否靠得是孩子自身的潜力和素质,还有机会与运气的相伴,如果孩子在某一领域非常有天赋,同时很有兴趣就有可能在这方面有所成就。如果孩子不喜欢某个职业,甚至有厌恶反感,就算和父母的职业一样,也很难成功。
5. 请结合具体事例简述,选择和父母相似的工作与否是不是和自身成功有着必然联系?
回答:
没有必然联系。一个例子就是我的英语老师,她父母都是医生,她自己却没有继承父母的职业,由于非常钟爱英语,又喜欢和学生们呆在一起,她选择当一名英语教师。而我的英语老师现在已经成为特级教室,在全学校甚至全市都是很有名气的英语教师。她的职业和父母没有一丝相似之处,然而她凭借自己的坚持努力与热情最终取得了成功。
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作文
With the increasingly difficulty of finding a job and competiton in geting a occupation existing in our society, many people beieve that for children's successful future career, it is better to choose the jobs that are similar to their parents. However, in my point of view, choose the job similar as their parent does not mean they will be easier to achieve success.A similar job sometime inhibit essentail steps in children's getting further breakthrough in their career. If a child has a same job as his parents, parents are more likely to have high expection of success in their child which bring much pressure on the child. Besides, if parent major in telecommunication and teach all of their skills to the child, he will think that he has learned enough about his major which was a huge barrier in his career develoment as telecommunication is a area that request high speed of change and revolution. The technology may be totally different now compared to the period of our parents' generation. So, there are still some disadvantages of choosing same job with parents.The success of children's career depend on their talent, potencial capcity and their passion of certain area. One of my English teacher miss Yang, for example, both of her parents are doctor, but she insists on being a English teacher as she is dadicated in English and love to be with students. She takes great passion on teaching English and all of us respect her persistence and kindness. Now she become a well-kown teacher in our school even being famous in our province. The success of our English teacher have nothing to do with her parent, she reach this height contribute to her excellent capability and long-time persistence.I concede that choose the similar job with parent could bring some convenient for seeking a job. Parent could guide their children to get accustomed to the job quickly. Besides, when there are too much competition in one occupation, relatives can help you enter a company more easily compare to those who don't have relatives in this company. However, choosing a suitable career is a significant decosion in our life, a good job that we love could make us more happy and more easily to have furture decelopment, it can influent our whole life. All in all, I persist on the idea that choose the jobs similar to parent does more harm to children and it is better to choose a suitable job for children.